A riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma

Once I was talking with my very wise brother-in-law about boys and girls and how differently we think.  I joked that if I only had the mind of a man, things would be so much simpler!  He laughed and said, "Oh no, no, no -- Better to be the mystery than to have to face the mystery!"

Here's to being the mystery (which in itself takes some patience -- we women confuse ourselves a lot of the time) and to the brave souls who make the effort to face it.